I like summer. Yep. Summer in Idaho is pretty awesome.
The day after we got home from our trip to Washington Payson got a chance to open up his presents from grandma and grandpa and Jeena and Eric. Jeena picked out this cool Spiderman toy for Payson and he LOVES this thing! The parts can be interchanged and he loves that. Ember and Everett liked it, too. Everett was very jealous. haha
My kids got balloons at Sonic and while we were eating it was so windy that each of their balloons flew away one by one. Two of them were blown so hard they came off their strings!! My kids were devastated and sobbed. The nice lady working at Sonic brough them new ones and we tied them on tighter. Did that matter? Not really. Payson lost his again within seconds! And, the worst thing ever happened. We’re all sitting there eating and Payson’s balloon gets swept away by the fierce wind. He jumps up to run after it. I start yelling to stop and stay here. He completely ignores me and is sprinting after his balloon. I’m screaming at the top of my lungs, “PAYSON STOP!!!! PAYSON!!! PAYSOOON!” and without a split second of hesitation he continues running straight into the parking lot and on toward the freaking highway. Luckily the highway is pretty far and by then my hysterical yelling at him has caught his attention enough to look back at me. He’s standing in the grass on the other side of the parking lot and I’m shaking and furious and upset and panicked becuase he just sprinted through a parking lot toward a highway! He could have been killed!! There wasn’t even .001% of him that had listened to me. He only cared about his balloon. This is how kids die! Chasing balls into streets, frisbees, kites, WHATEVER! THIS IS HOW THEY DIE!! He is lucky that the car that was driving through the parking lot was going really slow. I can’t even imagine had the situation changed just the littlest bit. That car could’ve been closer to him, could’ve been going more than 5 miles per hour…
I told my kids that was the last time they were ever getting balloons outdoors. And I said a prayer in tears in the car (we immediately left as soon as he got back to our table) over how glad I was that nothing bad happened.
After that horrible experience we went to pick Brooklyn up from summer school.
This was her first day (I think) and while waiting to get her a bunch of middle schoolers (going into high school next year) were getting out of their summer school programs and I heard every single curse word under the sun said in the worst ways and about threw up. WHO are these kids?!?! WHAT the heck kind of parent raises a horrible human being like that?!?! They all had cell phones and were talking about just the worst stuff and it honestly made me sick to my stomach what my kids are surrounded by. I told Allan I couldn’t send Brooke back there. He convinced me to keep her in there and I think I did send her once or twice more but EACH time there were kids, different kids each time, swearing and talking about horrible stuff. No more summer school for Brooke! It’s not worth the five minutes of vulgarity to have her helped with math. It’s just not.
Back at home Payson was excited to open and play with grandma and papa Milo’s gift! LEGOS!
Everett of course had to be involved.
I helped him and we had fun together.
He plays with these a lot even still, Ember too. Legos are timeless, aren’t they? 🙂
Want to know the saddest thing in the whole wide world? Payson, Ember, and Everett had never ever met my dad and Brooklyn and Sierra only met him once when Brooke was 3 and Sierra was 11 months old for about thirty minutes.
It hurt my heart so deeply that the man I loved most in the entire universe for all of my life didn’t even know his own grandchildren 🙁
I talked to my kids about my dad and showed them pictures and hoped they’d fall in love with their grandpa even just a fraction as much as I love my dad but figured with all the people at the BBQ that day it might not be as impactful. There are some loud personalities in my family (and by some I mean most, haha!) so I thought my very quiet dad might get missed in the crowd.
Imagine my surprise and sheer delight when Payson and Ember met my dad and decided he was the best person they’d ever met. They followed him like puppies and when he sat down to eat off to the side on this porch swing they followed him away from the crowd of family to sit next to him to eat! I was near bawling, you guys. I was in the middle of reconnecting with my family who I rarely see, overwhelmed with seeing EVERYone again and wanting to talk and visit with each person but here I was standing watching my babies go and sit with their grandpa. These new relationships forming without my causing them (besides having been born to my dad and birthing those kids, anyway) watching this family bond just exist and flourish from the first second they all met.
It was as close to magical as life can get. I don’t think I will ever, ever forget it.
I interrupted their moment to take this picture. I had to!
And as I look at it, I tear up every time. For my kids finally meeting their grandpa and loving him so much and also remembering when me and my brother were those ages and how much my dad was my super hero. He was a rock and anchor is a very troubling world for me. My childhood sucked pretty much a lot but my dad was a safe place for me. We are a lot alike and we get along so well and he always made me feel loved and accepted and happy even in my hardest times.
Okay that’s probably enough of my inner feelings about that. Moving on to the BBQ. We were finding out Jeena’s baby’s gender that day!! I was SO excited!! As close to, maybe even more, excited than finding out my own babies’ genders. I have just been SO happy for Jeena. She’s wanted a baby so much and to watch her pregnant and hear about the things she’s going through has been really emotional for me. I want the very best for her and I’m just giddy and relieved and completely thankful she’s finally going to be a mom!
So after everyone ate Jeena brought out a bunch of cute cupcakes she made. The frosting inside was…
Pink! A girl!! I’m SO excited for her to have a daughter! She’s going to be such a great mom and that baby is going to be SOOOO loved!!!
Next my grandma wanted a picture of everyone together so we started to get everyone to come back over to the chairs. I snapped this of Allan and my brother Chris chatting. They didn’t know I took it 🙂
As people were gathering Kyle took off his shirt and hat and was doing something silly. I don’t even remember what but we were all laughing really hard.
This is probably just an Ariana thing but the pictures taken before the one with everyone gathered and smiling are often my favorite. I love seeing everyone just there without posing or smiling for a camera.
Everyone! The only ones missing were my sister Kelly and her family. I wish they could’ve come 🙁
I pulled Jeena and Eric aside with a cupcake to take some pictures.
Grandma finally gets a chance to hold Everett! Papa Milo had held him all up to this point!
It was Payson’s birthday so we had him open presents.
Can you believe this kid is 7?! I truly can’t! I can’t remember life without Payson in the slightest but I also can’t believe it’s been 7 years since he was born! He’s growing up SO fast! Where’d the last 5 years go?!
Everett loved Payson’s stack of presents! He kept trying to play with them!
I had to include all these pictures of Payson opening his favorite present from me and Allan. A snap dragon stuffed animal from Plants vs. Zombies 2!
I don’t have any pictures of him opening presents from grandma and papa Milo and Aunt Jeena and Uncle Eric because I video taped that part but I do have pictures of him playing with those toys that I’ll do another post of!
One thing I LOVE about my family is that pictures aren’t an awkward thing! Everyone asks for pictures and smiles for pictures and it makes my life as a camera addict so much easier! I am pretty shy and reserved and practically never ask if I can take a picture of people because I don’t want to annoy them so when ANYone asks me to take a picture I jump at the chance!! I LOVE this picture of me and Jeena! I’ve missed my sister SO much 🙁 and am so happy to live near enough that I can see her more often 🙂
Then my mom asked for pictures of us together! Yay!
This one’s my favorite:
Then Papa Milo was holding the little kids and my mom was singing trot, trot to Boston. It brought back memories from when I was a kid and she used to do that to us. I remember her doing it to Jeena ALL the time 🙂
My kids were busting up in giggles.
You know, we’ve been so spoiled with warm weather that when packing for this trip I didn’t bring sweaters for my kids! It got a little chilly in the evening so Allan gave Ember his jacket and Everett got his shirt! haha
Grandparents and grandkids! We have this blown up on a canvas in our hallway!
Next we went to Dairy Queen to get sundaes for Payson’s birthday!
It was pretty late by the time we got to our hotel that night. We stayed in a really nice hotel in Bellingham. The breakfast at that hotel was good!
Payson loves this plush turtle he got for his birthday.
Ember had worn her boots with no socks (unbeknown to us) and the night before we’d noticed her feet were quite stinky! We let her boots air out and we washed her feet in the hotel sink (it was just too late for a bath, though) and the next morning we let her go barefoot until we bought her some new socks from Target!
I don’t know why Ember was playing the iPad in the car. We usually don’t do that. She must’ve been super tired and cranky.
We were supposed to head straight to my dad’s restaurant and then get headed back to Idaho so we didn’t arrive back at our house super late but we decided to just visit with my mom and Milo and Jeena and Eric a bit more first. It hadn’t been enough time seeing them the day before! 🙂
Jeena’s belly looked so cute that day, I loved how much more she showed while holding Everett, I had to take some pictures! (You other moms know how holding a toddler while pregnant makes your belly show so much more! I think Jeena was 20 weeks along here?)
Poor Everett was traumatized 😉
Ha, not really but his way of coping meeting new people was so different to me and Allan. We’ve had babies act one of two ways: either they are super social and go to a new person and smile and are fine or they are shy but scream or cry when being handed to a new person. Everett was different, he was shy but he’d just get quiet and not make eye contact with anyone. Not even me!
The kids got to taste carrots straight from Jeena and Eric’s garden! They loved that!
It was funny when Eric was holding Everett. Everett doesn’t look anything like me or Allan but everyone agreed he looked like he could’ve been Eric and Jeena’s kid! I loved this moment of Jeena taking a picture of Eric holding Everett so I had to take a picture of my own 🙂
Papa Milo got more time hanging out with Everett. Everett warmed up to Milo and they had fun practicing walking and playing with Jeena’s dogs and picking flowers… lots of fun!
My kids were in love with Eric and Jeena’s dogs. IN LOVE. They begged for pets, they always do, and I just said… no. haha! If I go for a whole year without cleaning someone else’s poop, vomit, pee, or diarrhea maybe I’ll start consider bringing another creature into my home who’s bodily waste I’ll be in charge of. Considering the amount of waste I’m cleaning these days, that’s nowhere near happening :/
The kids were excited to bring grandma flowers.
After hanging out for a couple hours it was time to go. Everyone was sad 🙁
But, remember how I said my kids have never even seen my dad? My dad never gets time with us so I HAD to make time to go see him at his restaurant. We ended up being two hours (or three?!) later than when we’d said we’d get there. But he was happy when we showed up. We were quite the crowd but luckily the kids were pretty well behaved!
My dad had to greet people at the front desk and answer the phone but he’d come back and sit with us any time he could.
You know what’s fun is when I was a kid my dad was a cook in a restaurant (Frontier Pies in Utah) and I remember my mom taking us to visit him at work and he’d let us each get a sucker. So in his restaurant he has a jar of suckers out front, too, and he let the kids come up and pick one out.
Everett had had enough of this big, scary adventure by this point in our Washington trip. During lunch he kept begging for “Na Na.” It wasn’t a good time for that, though, so I kept trying to distract him. I did nurse him in the car as soon as we left.
Allan had our point and shoot and was super awesome about getting some pictures with me in them while at the restaurant. I’m thankful for these 🙂
My brother Kyle is going to welding school and works as a cook at my dad’s restaurant. He came out to visit with us before we left.
And then Allan took this picture which is one of my favorites! I have only a couple pictures with my dad (of my entire life) so each one means a LOT!
And then it was time to do the 6 hour road trip home!
Diaper change stop.
The kids got a bunch of treats from the gas station.
And THAT is THAT! WHEEEEW!
After his bath I spiked his hair up. He looked pretty cute!
Later in the day, after lunch, and another outfit change because of his messy eating, we went outside for a walk/bike ride.
Sierra was having some troubles with her helmet. We ended up having her use her old Tinkerbell helmet again and it’s a much better fit.
After this we went inside for a few hours. I didn’t take any pictures so I’m sure we just did homeschool. Later in the evening we took another walk.
This time we went to the other side of our neighborhood.
The kids were having fun looking at the fountain when Sierra told us she saw a wasp. I spotted a hive and we quickly left that area! We haven’t walked by that fountain since!
Brooke and Sierra wanted a photoshoot.
Poor Everett was sick of being in the stroller at that point so I let him out and we brought out the bubbles.
As usual, Everett spilled the bubbles.
This is when I’d hurt my back so severely so I was pretty messed up. Allan was in Colorado and it was a really hard 8 days for me. I had a lot of depression and anxiety. Blowing bubbles outside actually saved my life. I really believe that. I’d feel the anxiety mounting all day and then I’d go outside and blow bubbles for thirty minutes or so and feel better.
Remember when Sierra won this bike from that coloring contest Allan’s job in Arizona had in 2009?
We’ve noticed Sierra looking way too big and being limited on her bike for quite a while now. We wanted to spend time with Sierra teaching her to ride her other bigger bike without training wheels. We finally got around to it one day and in perfect timing because Ember really needed a bike and buying one the same size as Sierra’s and having two bikes the same size seemed silly and wasteful! So, Sierra learned to ride a bike without training wheels and Ember got Sierra’s old bike!
I’ll do a separate post about Sierra learning to ride a bike without training wheels.
Okay, so the coolest but simplest thing in Coeur d’Alene to do with kids has to be the Mudgy and Millie trail!
Does anyone know Wee Sing? I’ve had all kinds of Wee Sing products for my kids over the years. Turns out the co creator of Wee Sing, Susan Nipp, lives in Coeur d’Alene and loves Coeur d’Alene and came up with the idea for a cute children’s book while hiking through the forest overlooking the city.
This book is about a moose named Mudgy and a mouse named Millie. They are swimming in the lake and then they decide to play hide and seek. Mudgy Moose counts first. While he’s closing his eyes to count Millie Mouse climbs onto his antlers and hides there. Mudgy ends up walking all over Coeur d’Alene looking for Millie. He ends up back at the lake (but a different part of the lake) and goes for a drink of water. When he leans toward the water for a drink he sees his reflection, with Millie Mouse hanging from his antlers! Millie tumbles onto his nose and they look at each other and laugh and laugh.
It’s a super cute book, one I’d recommend even if you don’t live in Coeur d’Alene! My kids were smiling the entire time I read it. Especially Payson and Ember since it’s perfectly in their age range. Ember was just beaming with happiness through the story.
But I’m getting ahead of myself, aren’t I?
So I’d heard about Mudgy and Millie when we very first moved to Coeur d’Alene, when we still lived in the hotel actually. We’d gone on a walk at Tubb’s Hill by the lake our first week in Idaho and came across a statue of a moose and a mouse. We didn’t know Mudgy and Millie at the time but we thought the statue was cute.
Actually, here’s a photo from that first week:
Don’t judge the bad picture, it was almost totally dark when I took that with our point and shoot 😉
So I think I heard about the Mudgy and Millie book from the library the first time we went (also while still living in the hotel!) and made a mental note to do the trail as soon as I had my crap together in our new life. Turns out it took me three friggin’ months to get my crap together after moving here. haha!
So I forget who and when they decided to make the trail interactive with the book but they did by having Terry Lee make sculptures of Mudgy and Millie and put them around the city and near the lake in all the places Mudgy stopped when he was looking for Millie. At each sculpture there’s a big sign with information and a trail map and a page from the book! It’s just SO neat, you guys!!
And with ALL of that explanation over with, want to come on our journey with us? In photos anyway 🙂
We started at the library because we wanted to get a Mudgy and Millie book and they sell them there.
I told the kids the whole point of our adventure was to see all the cool things in Coeur d’Alene so any time they wanted a photo with something or to stop and spend time looking at something to just say so and we would. And they did 🙂
The first thing they stopped at was this statue of a construction worker. The plaque was a dedication and thank you to all the men, soldiers and construction workers and anyone else involved with building our great country. The kids took this very literally when we talked about it and even hugged the statue shouting, “Thank you so much for building this cool place for us!”
The first stop was where Mudgy Moose met some hikers finishing up the hike at the lake. This was the first statue we visited and the kids were super excited. They loved seeing a page out of the book printed on the sign and flipping the book open to find the same page!
Oh and as we were walking up I told them that I hoped Millie Mouse had a finger to her lips motioning, “Shhh!” because that’s what she did in the book when Mudgy talked to people and sure enough, she was and the kids were tickled!
Next we walked over to downtown Coeur d’Alene! We stopped for a photo by this cool wall because it was cool. haha
It was a beautiful day! We’d meant to leave earlier in the day so it was sorta cool out but with five kids we are always leaving at least an hour later than we planned. This day we left two hours later than we planned and it was a little warm by then. Not unbearable though. The highest temperature it got was only 79.
We stopped at a shop called Shenanigans when we saw their ice cream sign 🙂
It was really, really good ice cream! I got the kids a single scoop each for $3.25. Everett and I got baby cones for $1 each. One of my kids (who will remain nameless) wasn’t entirely happy in the shop when I wouldn’t let her/him get the bigger, more expensive cone.
Everett was in love with ice cream! It was the first time he’d had any and I was wondering how he’d react. I held the cone out to him and without a second of hesitation he took it and started slurping away. He LoVeD it! I asked him, “Do you like ice cream?” and he smiled huge and nodded cheerfully. SO CUTE!
He ate it in the funniest way! He held it upside down!
He’d been eating it like that for a couple minutes and wouldn’t you know that the very few seconds I take to snap some pictures this happens: (good timing!)
I put his ice cream back together, cleaned him up a bit, and gave it back to him and he was excited again and surprisingly to me he shared lovingly with Ember when she asked! It was just the very cutest.
The kids saw this dandelion sculpture on the way to the next stop and I told them to just look and not climb on it and guess what they did? We had to stop and have a talk about how kids who don’t listen to their mom will not get to do the rest of the trail 😉
The trail map says to walk around the marina and past the resort to get to the next place. So we did.
The kids were mesmorized by how deep the water under the docks were. I told them if they wanted to bend over for a look they needed to be sitting next to me. Legs and bums touching the ground.
Even with those rules, which they followed, it was nerve wracking looking back and forth between the older four who were free of the stroller (my kids are dare devils, I don’t trust them to not just randomly do some crazy action and fall in!) I said let’s move along after a few minutes.
There was this floating stage that my kids desperately wanted to walk and preform on. I told them they could walk calmly to the center and only the center. So they walked calmly out and then immediately one kid went straight to the opposite edge to look over. I had to yell from where I was, “Stop, stay in the center!” and the people eating on the deck above looked at us. Luckily they seemed far more interested in watching Ember’s poses than looking at me and my camera!
So I’m not entirely sure where we were supposed to go on that marina but we ended up at a dead end. An area gated off and locked. The trail map is extremely difficult to read (no street names or really any detailed information) so I just took us up and through the resort to get to the next spot. We stopped in the resort gift shop so I could buy an umbrella to cover Everett with. He wasn’t close to being sunburned but I don’t even like my babies to tan at all (and I didn’t have any of my organic sunscreen since I lost it in the move, need to buy more) so anyway, yeah. The resort.
We also bought some crackers and beef jerky at the gift shop (wait, is ice cream not a decent lunch?!) and ate those at the next Mudgy and Millie stop on Independence Point.
Independence Point is actually the last stop but we had already been there and I knew my kids would prefer our last stop to be City Park so they could spend time playing.
We were pretty darn sweaty by this time since we’d been out for 3 hours and 45 minutes (including our time in the library and stops around town) so we cooled off at the outdoor showers. (Don’t worry, we had lots of bottles of water I’d brought so we were hydrated!)
My kids were obsessed with all the sculptures around town. Next time we go downtown I’m going to sit them down before we leave the house and tell them that they can’t climb on the statues and sculptures! This particular sculpture was for sale. Only $45,000!
That ice cream shop we went to earlier in the day had toys as well. My kids of course found the stuffed animal section and begged, and begged, and begged, and BEGGED for toys. I answered the exact same each time any one of them asked if they could have a toy, “Of course. For Christmas.”
BUT Brooke’s birthday is in a week and a half so I did get her two small stuffed animals she wanted. She snuck them out of the bag to play with them a little bit while I took the picture of the other kids on the sculpture.
On the walk back to the library, where our car was parked, we took the route that goes through the downtown.
And when we spotted The Honeypeeps Sweet Shop we couldn’t resist going in to peek around. I told myself not to buy anything but we totally did.
And lucky we did take the route back to our car through the downtown because we finally found the Mudgy and Millie statue we’d been looking for. We had been very close to it the first time we walked downtown but had turned back around just before getting to where it is!
And finally we were back at the library!
The kids had spotted the Mudgy and Millie sculpture here when we first left the library and I’d asked them if they wanted to see this one first or last and they chose last. And I’m glad they did because this pretty grass area was a nice ending place 🙂
Here is the stuff we bought while on our adventure. I had planned on only spending money buying the Mudgy and Millie book. Ummmm, yeah, that didn’t happen.
Payson got a birthday card from grandma and grandpa Hausen and we went to the store to spend the money included! He picked out exactly what he wanted without being indecisive (he’s a very decisive kid) and then wanted to make a video when we got home to show grandma and grandpa what he picked and to say thank you. So that’s what we did. I’ll try to upload the video tomorrow!
At the other end of the table Everett was having a snack.
A different day, school time.
While we were homeschooling Everett figured out how to drag boxes from other parts of the house into the kitchen to reach the counters. Always thinking that one. Also, always destroying :/
Later, entertaining baby efforts underway.
Everett needs a trike! We have a couple little big wheeler type ride on toys but when Everett scoots on them the back tires hit his ankles and he hates it. So I go in search of something that won’t hit his ankles. We spend a long time looking at trikes and ride on toys at Target. I finally settle on a red trike that can be pushed like a stroller. I go to Wal-Mart next to see if I can get it cheaper there.
Once home Everett can’t contain his excitement and has to be a part of the building the trike process. As soon as the trike has the least bit of a trike shape he sits on it and it’s very challenging building the rest of the trike with him freaking out when I take him off it.
Once built we go on our evening walk!
During this part of our walk we were surprised when we got hit by the sprinklers in the field next to us!